Na Kaho Tum Mere Nahin Episode 14 in High Quality – 21st January 2013 Exclusive Videos, Na Kaho Tum Mere Nahi January 21, 2013 178 Comments Watch Latest Online Na Kaho Tum Mere Nahin Episode 14 in High Quality – 21st January 2013 Dailymotion FULL Tune anamta baree behn kamini zaleel Saba Wese maine kabhi aisi koi behan nahi dekhi jo aisi ho….Behne ghar basati hain..bigaarti nahi… uswa i dun like pak daramas any more relation ko itna weak dikhaya ha uswa miyan shadi kr la n dosri biwi achi nhe r pahle ki trf wapsi soo typical story asia ye rishta jitna mazboot hota ha us se zaida kamzooor bhi hota ha,dekha nai zara si baat p merd oret ki saari mehrbaniayan bhool jata ha,mera tu dil dhak se reh gia jub merab ny maya se shadi ka kaha tu,phir bad me sakoon ki saans ayi,dono piyar krty hein lekin koi b jhukny ko tiyar nahi,sara khasara oret k haq me jata ha so mehru ko apna gher batchana chahiye ta k maya k mon p tmancha lagy,or mehru ki frend ko beech me per k sari misunderstanding door kerni chahiye,ta k wo mil jaen asia ye rishta jitna mazboot hota ha us se zaida kamzooor bhi hota ha,dekha nai zara si baat p merd oret ki saari mehrbaniayan bhool jata ha,mera tu dil dhak se reh gia jub merab ny maya se shadi ka kaha tu,phir bad me sakoon ki saans ayi,dono piyar krty hein lekin koi b jhukny ko tiyar nahi,sara khasara oret k haq me jata ha so mehru ko apna gher batchana chahiye ta k maya k mon p tmancha lagy,or mehru ki frend ko beech me per k sari misunderstanding door kerni chahiye,ta k wo mil jaen sidra please it is my request to admins to upload dramas from youtube not from tune or dailymotion because mera atak atak kar chalta hai. Administrator Youtube is BAN in Pakistan. Hiba Admin,please please don't publish comments when there is abusive language used for yourself, u can control this its all in your hands…….i luv coming to this site for entertainment n cant stand people swearing at u bcz i really appreciate your work. abdul jnb chalta to ha na shukar ada kern jo bi chalta ha werna hum to sara din bethe rehte hn chalta he nai ha Sannia lol Amna Bahir tu chalta hay. Is liya pls upload at youtube also thank june ya admin ka nai aap kay internet connection ka qasoor hay Sidra connection youtube chalatay waqt to theek thaak hota hai dailymotion lagain to awaz agay chali jati hai aur picture peechay reh jati hai tune pk main bhi aisa hota hai balke us main pause karne k liye video par click karain to kuch aur khul jata hai. huma mehroo ko merab k wapas farun jana chahye Saba Chupa chaap drama dekho…….Islam ko beech mei lanay ki zaroorat nahi hy…Pagal log huma warna drama bekar hai elf Ahsan Khan is such a versatile actor. Pakistani dramas!!! neha awesum drama but old story but old z gold noori Yeh Meerab Mehru ko hat haram keh raha tha , kabhi apne ghireban main jhank kar dekh leta ke woh khud kya hai……aur Maya tu mujhe zara bhi achi nahin laghti kaise kisi ka ghar thor dya home breaker, parents ke jhagre main sab se zyada nuksan bachoun ko utana parta hai…… maa ke paas rahe tu baap ki mohabbat/shafqat se mehroom,baap ke paas rahe tu wohi mehrumyan. arshia kiTna ThappTi hAi mAya :/ haTs OFF 2 saBa nD her aCTinG !! Henna Rishton ki to koi ehmiyat hi nehin rahi aaj kal ke zamane mein agar hum dramon ki thinking follow karein….it scares me when i see how weak is a husband-wife relationship….itna ego beech mein rakh diya hai ke jo pyar tha woh to yaad hi nehin raha. And i hear many people say that Maya is beautiful, yes, she may be beautiful but her character's personality has made her ugly. I dont think of her as someone pretty, make up is over, dressing sense is weird, looks like she s going on a party jab ke sirf office mein jaana hota hai. Anyway, hope all the tension releases soon. Its been a long time since ive seen a happy ending in a drama. Nayab Zafar pta nahe admi apne apko smjhte kia hai … ek dum badal jatay hain jhukne ko kbhi tiyar nahe hote? auart ki sari qurbaniun pe ek dum pani phenk dyte hain agr wo apne haq ke lea kuch kre to Lubna rashid Aurat ka rawwayya b to dekhen na aap Nayab ,koi bivi kitni hi unchi or zyada paisa kamane wali na hojye ghr banana usay hi partahai zid agar aurat karne lage to ghr toot jate hain Nayab Zafar u r rite aurat hi ko jhukna parhta hai,,, per lubna kia ek dafa bhi wo es ki khushi ke lea kuch nahe kr skta… marad apne eomtions or scarfice krne se kyun durte hain hmesha aurat hi kyun… humien hi bachpan se ye sekhaya jata hai ke apna sb qurban kr do per kia humri koi selfrespect nahe hoti humri koi khuwhish nahe hoti mailalee59 Hi listen friends is time merab ke jo bhe situation hay but wo dil ke ghehraiyoun sy mehru sy payar karta hai aur maya se kbhe shadi nhe kare ga merab aise halat paida kar key sirf mehru ka garoor torna chahta hai aur us ko us ke ego sy nikalna chahta hai look aisa he ho ga ap sab ke kya raye hai is key about Lubna rashid hope so ali 57 maya khud ko bht high samajh rhe hai moun key bal geray gi jub is ka x husband is ko neecha dikhaye ga aur is ke asliyat merab key samne aye ge komal YR YE IS WEB SIT KO HOTA KIA JARHA H DRAMA TO CHAL HE NHI RHA BILKUL B maria 9.30 pm dekha karo Hero2828 Two things I want to point out here; There is nothing wrong with taking a second wife, it is permissible in islam. If you don't accept something that is in Quran you are not muslim. Pakistani society has totally collapsed. Dramas of this kind are used to brainwash woman so they can be adverseral towards polygammy. You will not see this problem in other muslim countries such as Malaysia. I advice all pakistani muslim women to stay away from this kind of deliberate programming of women. If you hate something about islam, submit to it; as the time goes on you will understand it. If your husband says that I want to get a second wife and you make fuss about it, your are brainwashed by the society. THINK OUTSIDE THE BOX! Secondly, mehru in this drama must be called antagonist not maya, because she is coming into clash with his husband on this issue of polygamy. However mehru's stand on supporting her sister in law's family is absolutely correct. They are living off meerab's income. hussain 2nd marriage is permissible but maya is not accepted because she crazy and flirt girl… Lubna rashid Hero 2828 aap to rehne den,kahan ki story kahan miladi LOL Annie Are you freaking crazy? Seriously. Each woman has the right to be treated with respect, love, and equality, neither of which Meerab providing Mehru. Women should not have to be dependent on men to live a happy and functional life. If he wants a second wife, he needs full permission from his first wife and he must treat them both equally. It is clear that he isn't planning on doing either. You are taking the sayings from the Quran out of context. Plus, if you really love someone, you wouldn't find the need for another wife. There is no room for anyone else. If he wants another wife, he should liberate Mehru first. He clearly doesn't deserve her. Hero 2828 Iam not even talking about this drama, I am speaking from real life experience. You can maintain both wives at the same time. Pakistani society is so naive about reality. Haseeb Pakistani society isn't naive about reality. You are. You're the one who doesn't seem to understand that a man like Meerab doesn't have the right to marry another wife as he can't afford her. To have another wife requires the financial expenses f both families to be fulfilled. Meerab can't do that, so he mustn't be allowed. Maheen I agree with the financial argument. In Islam, a man is required to treat more than one wife equally, and that translates into equality in economic terms as well. I am not opposed to polygamy provided the man is fair to all of his wives. And you are right that Meerab cannot afford to support two families at this moment. mahum Armaan im sure u r involved with 2 women at a time shazi oh please if you are really so desparate to remarry give your first wife a divorce cause she deserves someone better! Hero2828 My God! I am not even married for the first time, I was trying to tell people there should be no disdain about polygammy in pakistan. These kind of dramas shape public opinion in negative context! Haseeb These sort of dramas don't shape any opinion on polygamy. They only bring about self-introspection and makes society question how such blatant abuse of Islamic laws came about in our Muashra. This is a reality based drama. There is no denial that this is a reality, not just in Pakistan but in several Muslim societies where the permission to marry several wives is taken out of context and misused. There is more to life than 'permissible' and 'impermissible'. Anonymous So, only women are brainwashed when watching these dramas? What about the Pakistani male who just watched and now has decided that "we'll, my wife won't do exactly as I want so I guess I can also go get another wife"??? In this drama, the MAN (Meerub) is the one who is brainwashed!!!! Get it straight! alishba FOR YOUR KIND INFORMATION A MAN IS ONLY ALLOWED TO MARRY SECOND OR THIRD TIME IF IT`S NECESSARY OTHER WISE, THE HUSBAND IS TAKING HER WIFE RIGHT AWAY FROM HER. Hero2828 Who says that there should be a necessity? But the condition is equality. Paki society is dumbed down Annie Is it possible to be equal? NO. There is no possible way that your love, time, and attention will be divided up equally. Therefore, it is almost impossible to obey all the Islamic rules. Mr.Hero, I really do not like you. Aysha God himself says in Quran that a man can not do justice between wives so he should marry only one. Sairah Who says there doesn't need to be a necessity? Show me where it states this n the holy Quran???? You are the one who is ignorant. Do your research before posting your dumb***s remarks. Polygamy was practiced in a time when war, famine, and disease left many women to fend for themselves. In order to survive, they had to remarry. This is not case anymore. Just because a concept or law was once valid doesn't mean it is now. And, I wonder why so many men will advocate to instigate the concepts/laws that clearly benefit them, but what about the concept that any money a woman earns is hers alone and the husband has NO rights to it in Islam? guest Plz go first study than post your comments. Haseeb If you think Muslim women from other nations are so accepting of polygamy, then read this…. http://www.siasat.com/english/news/polygamy-devia… In summary, the article teels us that 66% of the Malaysian first wives were against polygamy and 90% of the children were also against it. Having lived outside Pakistan, I can definitely tell you that Muslim women of other nationalities and cultures aren't accepting of polygamy either. Its not in the nature of human beings to want to share a spouse. And Islam allows the expressions of such desires. This is why women have an Islamic right to insert a no-polygamy clause in their Nikah contract. And the husband is obliged to abide by that stipulation. The above information isn't meant to mock or deride polygamy. Its to show YOU that you are wrong to assume that this is a purely 'Pakistani' phenomenon. And you are weong to make such a comment on women gor a purely human instinct. After all, how would you feel if Islam allowed your wife to have 4 husbands? And for your kind onformation, Mr Hero, polygamy is one of the MOST abused institutions today in Pakistani society. This drama is NOT trying to brainwash women against polygamy, its merely reflecting the reality of society. And the reality is that polygamy is mostly misused by selfish Muslim men in our society. And Mehru is not the antagonist. Can I ask you, what kind of woman is better? A girl like Mehru who is a loyal and sincere wife? Or a selfish girl like Maya? Poygamy is a CHOICE. Its the choice of the husband to practise it and the choice of the first wife to accept or decline. A Muslim woman is well within her Islamic rights to leave a polygamous marriage. Its not in the nature of most gumans to want to share a spouse. And between me and you, I think those men who want a second wife due to lust have brains which are smaller than teenagers' brains. By the way disliking polygamy for yourself or a loved one or a person who is not interested in that lifestyle is NOT kufr. Maybe rejecting the concept of polygamy could be kufr. But there's a difference in rejecting a concept and a concept turned into a personal practise. Haseeb The Prophet(saw) said 'I don't like the tasters, men and women'…'Allah doesn't like the tasters, men and women'. Here he was referring to people who marry for lust and variety. Second marriage is not a joke. I agree that second, third and fourth marriage is allowed in Islam but to use it to fulfil your lusts and desires is merely pathetic. Fatima Agree with u what u said Hasseb, and I am from Canada and i am studying child psychology and mr hero, have u ever heard this phrase "put your self in someone shoes", second marriage has deleterious effects on children and it literally sabotage their identiy and their self-esteem. None of us here is denying with holy Quran commandments , but today men mostly like to have another woman for lust and unfortunately, none of them follow Quran but have double standard approach and Islam gets notorious for nothing. well it's your perspective, but you have to look at the both side of coins in other words, the consequences. the polygamy is in vogue these days. And mr hero, Islam has given the right to men for 2nd, 3rd, or 4th marriage only if the wife is infertile, not loyal, does not respect and abusive to her husband , and also Allah subhantAllah has stated those conditions precisely in holy Quran. Also they r allowed for second marriage to reduce the number of orphans and widows as well. And do not forget the fact that every marriage needs financial stability and Allah SubhnaTAllah has also stated that to have another wife, you have to do justice and fulfilled both families needs. Aysha Brother Hero, please read the ariticlie below by a famous Islamic Scholar on polygamy. Hopefully it will open your mind. — http://archives.dawn.com/archives/26484 Also, have you thought about kids of polygmous marriages ? Just take example of this drama, what psycological damage Meerab's second marriage will bring to his children? Any father who loves his children will never ever bring so much pain to his children by bringing another woman in his life besides their mother. Kids consider second marriage of their father as cheating and betryal to them and their mother. And they are mentaly scared for life. Hero2828 Sister ayesha you watch this video on polygamy http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=SNcYTloFqrg Aysha Well, Mr. Hero, I put a link to what made sense to me and you put a link to what made sense to you. There are differen scholars with different interpertations. Dont forget, there are Islamic Scholars who belive that killing others (suicde bombing) is jihad. And there are people out there who beleive in those scholars teaching as well. So its all about using your brain and deciding what makes more sense to you. If you think Islam allows what Meerab is doing in this drama by marrying Maya, then all I can say is Islam is endanger becuase of people like you who are twisting/turning God's words to be used for their personal lust and making fun of what God has permitted. Sara I think you should check out this from Sheikh Ahmed Kutty[ he is affiliated with Al-Azhar-one of the oldest and most reputable institutions of Islamic learning and education-and runs OnIslam.net-the sixth largest Islamic website on the internet] and here is what he says about polygyny .I am of the opinion that no one is allowed to take another wife in a culture where monogamy is the norm since Muslims are bound to comply with the conditions-agreed upon between the parties prior to the marriage. Conditions can be either stated in writing or words, or they can be simply taken for granted or assumed in a culture or milieu. Since in this culture a woman would not normally marry a man if she knows in advance that he would take another wife, then he is not allowed to do that, unless he has informed her of his intent upfront. Otherwise, he is breaking that tacit agreement. Allah Almighty knows best. http://www.onislam.net/english/shariah/special-co… Aysha Thanks for the useful info Sara zam zam very wrong description of islam their are certain conditions and rules for every thing sasha ahaaah ahum,n what else should we do when husbands asks? blah blah blah phool plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz u think outside of the box….and meerab has no such issues that he should be getting married second time….if he is just getting married bec he wants to or bec of his problems with his wife then mehru is correct……those husb can got to helllllll sami hero polygamy is allowed no doubt but issue here is not polygamy. issue is self respect, ego and misunderstandings. still meerab dont have intention to marry maya. he still loves mehru and his children. and he shud'nt marry maya kind of selfish woman. 12345 He doesn't love Mehru at all. He is batka huwa. No loving husband behaves like him. Only Mehru has true love. Aysha 1234, I agree with you 100%. Only Mehru truely loves her husband kkk one comment for you Jackass: you are brain dead and your comments reflect that!! guest Hero i am agree with you , you are absolutely right, this kind of dramas only to spoil and suffer the women , Now i am surprised people think second marriage as a evil, this is bcz of lack of islam and lack of knowledge.If one can afford he should go for second marriage thats it. 12345 You are the one who lacks knowledge of Islam. It is better to have only one wife. Haseeb I am surprised people liked your comments at all. Its very sad. Polygamy may be permissible, but it definitely does not fit into the socio-economic context here. And Polygamy is NOT some kind of sixth pillar of Islam. Allah is not going to ask how many wives we married on the day of Judgemeny but he definitely does ask how we TREATED them. The Prophet[SAW] was married to only one wife Khadijah[ra] in a monogamous marriage for 25 years despite living in a polygamous society. Snd that was his MOST successful and loving marriage, that he still remembered years later, even not remarrying until 2 years after Khadijah[ra] died. That can be compared to only 8 years of his polygamous marriages [which was at a time when many pious men remarried to support women in need] which was busily spent in Dawah and millitary campaigns. Even his wives, despite being extremely pious women, still felt jealous of each other. Now you tell me, which kind of marriage seems to be more encouraged in Islam? As far as I know the major schools of Sunni thought such as Shaffi'i maintain it is BETTER to 'limit oneself to one wife'. Haseeb judgement* and* For all the men who believe that this drama ishaving a negative influence on Pakistani women, why don't you just not watch this drama at all and protect your women fom watching these dramas. This drama is depicting reality. Like it or not. Aysha Allah himself says in Quran that a man can not love all his wife equally so he should marry only one. shalimar Aap aik jahil insaan hain, Allah Aap ko aqal de. Islam allowed up to 4 marriages to men as they were allowed to marry unlimited number of times which was unfair to the wives as it could lead them to temptation.A man can only marry another woman if he can love all his wives equally, which according to Allah is not possible. So this condition actually renders the permission ,void .Do read Quran if you have dought instead of consulting so called religious scholars, like the Jews in Jesus christ time use to do soniya Nayab aap ne theik kaha hai .maloom nahi k ya mard apni aana ko kyun nahi toyrtey hain anna nahi turtey chahay sab kuch tuot jay ghar tuot jay bacgay bv ya khud hi tuot magar anna nahi tuorna us ko wife ne jab itnee baat maan li hai us ki tu keya us ki eik baat nahi maan sakta ya us ki baat na bhi maney but apna ghar nahi bacha sakta apney bachoo ko hi dekh lay humasha ourat hi ko necha dekha ker khush hota hai kyun ? aay kaash k huzoor paak ki sunnat per aamal kerney walay ya admi hotay tu her ghar hi khushi ka saama hota . Nayab Zafar han kese ko kbhi zindge main ek baar to spuchna chiyye aurat ka bhi dil hota hai … wo bhi kbhi sawal kr skti hai aliya bhatt mard itny bhe buray nhe hoty … jitna es drama mein dekhya gya hy … nomi mehru kiyon zid par ari hai.ghar bacha le apna yar. Rehaan O bhai yar nhe hai husband hai "SHOHAR" Rehaan Saaali! Maya ka koi Rape kr day.. kamini bitch.. Mehru I LOVE U.. dnt worry about meerab wapis aye ga mafi mangta hua tumhary pass… Maheen You are an idiot calling for a woman to be raped. Disgusting. Maya is wrong but rape is a horrific crime. Please do not even joke about such a sick thing. Rehaan O.K but is that fair? jo Maya kr rhi hai? wo to mehru ki frnd hai nd frnds aisi hoti hain? nd these dramas are reflects our society that such type of womns are among us..what do you think about these womans which are distroying their family member's, friend's or any relative's home by their sick mind and Because of their false ego and taking revenge. Aysha Rehan, mera khyal main ager Meerab wapis aay bhee to Mehru ko Meerab ko muaaf naheen kerna chayey. Mehru deserves someone better than Meerab. Meerab should suffer with Maya for rest of his life rehaan hmmm but meerab is not yet know enough about Maya. If he get married with Maya then what will happen with Mehru she has sacrificed a lot for Meerab.. and she is so innocent, cute i dnt know why it does not seem to meerab!!!!! ANDHAA…… Amna Asi aurtein duniya may exist kerti hein … I like maya acting seriously kitni kobsurti say merab say baat kerti hay . Aur mheru hamesh batameezi say . Actually aurtoon ko seekhna chiyay . Kay achay ilfaz kasay istamal kertay hein . Mheru agar apnay husband ko piyar say baat Kery tu wo kabhi bhi us say door na hoo. Biwi ko apnay shohor ki izat kerni chiyay. Aur baat rahi dosri shadi ki tu apni pheli wife ko tu kush rhk nai Sakta to dosri ker kay us ko bhut sawab milay ga nonsense Lubna rashid I totally agree wd u Amna ,Mehru beshak buhat involve hai meerab main us ki wife hai magar 1 khamoshi 100 masle khtam kardeti hai jab Meerab ko is waqt sahi ghalt nahi samjh araha tha to Mehru ko apna behavior polite rakhna chaiye tha Aysha Did you see same Maya when she was talking to her husband???And just imagine how would Maya talk to Meerab if Maya is his wife and Meerab gets involved with another woman. Haseeb Apka kya khayaal hai. Maya shaadi ke baad bhi aisey hi baat karegi Meerab sei? phool i am sure u also saw how maya treats her own husband and she's talking very nicely to other women husbands….it is very odd that you like that! if mehru is talked like that it is bec she is meerab wife and many times husb and wife do get frustarted with eachother…..atleast she doesn't treat meerab like maya has done to her own husb….. Amna If you think she is doing bcoz of frustation than I think this is main problem . Frustation never leads to solution . And I m not saying maya. Is vry positive character but the way she talk with meerab I would love to talk like this with my husband . Why women take forgranted when man become their husband. She is talking in vry soothing tone with him . And the main thing is she have no ego . She apologize easily … Which as a wife mheru have soooo much ego tht she leave relation. Lubna rashid Awsome Drama saba qamar or ahsan khan 2no ki buhat hi zbardst acting hai Ijaz Ye Drama nahi Haqeeqat Hy ye sab kuch meray dost k sath ho raha hy us ki biwi bhi maya k tarah nikli hyus ne bhi sab kuh apnay nam karwa k talaq le rahi hy Ijaz Gujranwala aj kal zayda tar khawateen apny shohron se dhoka kar rahi hyn jis ki waja ye daramy bhi hein har darama mein shadi shuda orat apny husband k elawa dosron mein intress le rahi hun khuda k liaye hosh k nahun lein. madiha as reply to Hero2828: you are right…there is nothing wrong in taking a second wife. it is permissible in islam. BUT NOT IN THIS WAY as shown in this drama. 2nd marriage here is just a CREATED CONSEQUENCE of series of events as WANTED by maya herself. this marriage is a part of maya's own plan. 2nd marriage doesnot mean that you literally SNATCH away someone's husband by CREATING misunderstandings. Hiba I agree with u Madiha,taking a second wife is permissible but not in this situation where a husband wants to degrade/insult his first wife out of egoism , although i'm not against polygamy but this reason for second marriage is not acceptable !!!!!! Meerab is living off Maya so that's why he chose Maya over his own wife….. did u hear Maya saying that i did not expect Mehru to be like this with her ex she's got the nerve to say all this whilst being glued to Meerab and proposing to him!!!!!! rani sara qusur eerab ki sister ka he jan nhe chorty.or mehru ko sara expense ka burden meera ko dena tha khud ko kion tense kia Hina Ghar banati bhi orat ha aur ghar bachati bhi orat.Orat ko zid or anna ki bohat menhgai kemat ada karni parti ha.. chay ya bat galt ho ya sahi laki jokna orat ko hi parta ha.. orat ke wafa ka mada ziada hota ha… mobahat wo mard say ziada karti ha.. aur jab mohabat ki jati ha to wahan anna nai hoti… so i must say that mehru is more responsible for all these circumstances… this is a good lesson for all the girls… learn to surender and sacrifice the ego.. Aysha Hina, in other words, you are saying " jo aurat her zulm/zidati bardasht karay gi, us ka gher buch jaai ga, aur jo aurat apany auper honay walay zulm/ziadti kay khilaf awaaz uthay gee, us ka gher toot jaay ga" so ALL WOMEN, KEEP TOLRATING BRUTALITIES AND ZULM IF YOU WANT TO SAVE YOUR HOME. Hina I am not talking about brutalities… thats another issuse,, another extremm.. but just considering the situation presented in this drama,, there is no brutality ,, its only a war of ego. and nothing… man is dominant ,, although a bitter truth but we must admit…,, but again I will say that love has great power ,,wife can mold the heart of husband with her love.. but egoistical behariour of wife makes husband more egoistical….bitter but true Sadia hard to accept for some people but true Aysha so the way meerab is threatning Mehru to get married to Maya is not brutal? Do you have any self respect being a woman? do you even think women are human beings with wishes, desires? You konw why women are going thru that much in our society? its becuase of other women like you , who will never ever raise a voice against any ziadti. Please have some self respect being a woman, u are a HUMAN BEING WITH HEART AND BRAIN Aysha And also Hina and Sadia, In your opinion, what should mehru do if Meerab marrys Maya? Hina Mind ur language please.. every one has the rite to express the opinion.. i have self respect… but u better learn how to give respect to others… if u have to courage to express ur opinion then u should have tolerance also to bears others opinion.. sami ur the only one whos saying this. but i think it depends on situation. if therz no choice she have full right to take "khula". but mostly women here compromise for the sake of their children. a woman shud be strong enuf to tackle every situation but i agree wid ur 1st point. sidra ego or self respect me minor sa difference hota hai….. ego ko sacrifice kiya ja sakta hai self respect ko nahi Haseeb Wrong* For* Womens* lol mehru should record the talk whn maya cum to her house and thn show it to merab Sidra omg i was thinking the same…why did not mehru record maya's voice and prove to meerab that she is a fraud. faiza coz woh agar aisa kar daiti to drama khatam na ho jata??!! Nisha Ap sb kin maslon pr bahs kr rahe hain..jbke ye drama 2nd marriage problem ko point kr hi nae raha…actual thing we got from this drama is irrational acts of meerab in different fields like his immaturity.man must be rational and mature otherwise life wd become hell.. He is obsessive about helping his sister without investigation..secondly he is becoming prey of Maya's trap…he is irresponsible man who can't afford his own children's lifestyle inspite of having enough income…so actually the drama has these three issues, a ma must learn and 2nd marriage is its secondary problem created from these issues… RAK exactly !! Nisha Actually I'm going through the same problems that's y I can understand… But my husband is not getting 2nd marriage…but these problems are enough to destroy our peace…finally I say that man must be rational.. Haseeb It is true that there is nothing inherently wrong with polygamy. But marriage involves a couple and therefore all decisions involve joint dialogue and management between the two of them. They make decisions jointly and discuss things openly. If Mehru doesn't want a co-wife she is not to blame. It is not part of human nature to share a spouse. This is true generally of all people, whatever their religion or culture be. Muslim or non-muslim. Pakistani or non-Pakistani. Islam caters to this need by permitting women to divorce their polygamous husbands and ALSO allows women to stipulate a no-polygamy clause in their Nikah contract which the husband is obliged to abide to. It is known that even the great-granddaughter of the Prophet[saw] stipulated this condition. According to Hero2828, women are being brainwashed by our dramas to reject polygamy. When in tact these dramas reflect reality in society, as it is not part of a human's nature to share a spouse. And Meerab is wrong. Cheatinging on your wife and marrying the woman you cheated on your wife with is Islamically unappropriate, and plus Meerab can't even afford two wives. ninja are yaar agar pheli biwi ne doosri shaadi ki permission nahi di to doosri shaadi nahi karni chahiye. That's what I heard, but I am not sure if its according to Islam. Aysha If Mehru was in America, when Meerab took the kids, she would have called the police and police would have locked him up in jail for snatching kids from the mother like that. Even husabnd and wife are seprated (not divorced) court decides how much time kids will spent with each parent. A FATHER DOES NOT HAVE ANY RIGHT TO TAKE THE KIDS AWAY LIKE THAT Haseeb In Islam custody of children is exclusively for the mother except at a few stages. But mostly children remain with the mother in case of separation and divorce. Under Shariah, if the mother is not available then the children go to the Khala or Nano, not the father. Sadia do u want to say that every woman should go to America for justice? Aysha ji aik father or kidnapper may farak hota he jail janay wale kia bat he..america may to agar parents bachon ko daant bhi dain to wo police manga laitay hain..tabi wahan pay parents ke koi izzat nahe karta he atleast mujay asa insaf nahe chaye Aysha Miss sidra, both mother and father have equal rights on children. Nor mother , neither fahter has a right to snatch the kids from their parent. People like you can understand only when they go thru the same problem themselves. Aysha and please use your brain. Instead of women coming to america, in pakistan , they can have same laws to protect mothers and to prevent anyone snatching her kids from her. Aulad per maan ka huq baap kee nisbat teen guna ziada hay. Hawa Ji Miss Sadia ager Pakistan main Parents ki izzar hotee to Eidi Old age house and daarul aaman jasay iddaray kab kay band ho gaee hotee… Dusroon ko lesson daynay say pahlay kud lesson lo… you foolish girl.. sanam shahid thnx btanay ka sster Aysha Mehru derves a better person in her life than this looser Meerab. Aysha "deserves" Haseeb Guys, Hero2828 is the future Meerab. Anonymous Next time he posts something he should change his Username to ZERO! Haseeb Maya looked like a vampire when she came to insult Mehru about snatching her husband. 12345 Lots of love to Maya and Meerab!!!! -From HELL!!!!! Badtameez You are so passionate about both …lol sami i disagree wid da ones who r saying its only meerab's fault. if husband n wife stop listening each other n start believing other people then it always creates misunderstandings. 12345 It was only Meerab who stopped listening to his wife and trusted his gf. Mehru was trying to show him the right path all the time. sami @12345 maya is not his GF by da way. ya meerab shud listen to his wife and mehru shud tackle the whole issue with wisdom and no doubt she can. 12345 She is his gf. What else do you call a man and woman in a haram romantic relationship? Aysha I agree with you 1234. Mehru is not the one who is listening to others. Meerab is the one who is listening to others (his sister and GF). And yes, Maya IS his girl friend. Actually in last episode, Mehru used correct words for Meerab. He is "Mayas" Rakhail . And he is living off of her money which he does not deserve.Mehru kept telling Meerab to leave Maya beucase she is intreted in him. She also told him that Arslan is willing to give same job to Meerab. But meerab never belived in her. Even when Maya showed her intrest in Meerab, he still did not belive in his wife. If a woman shows intrest in a married man, should he be in touch with her? 12345 Sami is one of those men who don't like to admit the faults of men. Instead, men like him go onto the rhetoric that 'aurat hamesha aurat ki dushman hoti hain'. My question to him is that don't men have enough aqal to differentiate between right and wrong, between the good woman and bad woman? I often hear men using this ''aurat aurat ki dushman'' line to defend themselves from any wrongdoing. sami and ur women who see the world with closed eyes. so u think aurat aurat ki dushman nahi hoti. do u really think meerab wud do same with mehru if therz no Maya and Bano apa. n read carefully i said its not "only" his fault. pehle aankhein khol lein phir comment perhein. meine kabhi nahi kaha ke meerab ki ghalti nahi hai. ap jaisi aurtein pata nahi mazloomiyat ka medal kyon lena chahti hain. mehru slap maya and start living wid her husband n children but shes doing same what maya wants. 12345 When did I say women are not at fault? I am saying that men should STOP trying to avoid the blame, under the guise of 'aurat aurat ki dushman'. For God's sake you are MEN. You are the ones responsible for running a household. If Meerab's household was being disturbed by women, then it was HIS responsibility to protect his household. It is a MAN's responsibility to protect his family, and it is THEIR responsibility to make the right decisions and recognise who is right or wrong. Meerab instead chooses to be unwise and he doesn't even know how to deal with the women in life. What I mean to say is that the evil women are also to blame, but men should STOP using the aurat aurat ki dushman to card to save their backs. Aysha sami, yey 1234 kaheen aap kee bivi to naheen hay? hehehe. Aik aur bhee hay Sami with upper case "S". Aap nay bhee meri tarah is site per buhut dushman paal liay hain roha khan uffffff kashhaf mujay to sab say ziada bachon pay taras ata hay. aik apni taraf un ko khaichta hay doosra apni taraf. maya ki shadi baano apa kay baitay say kara kay dono patch up kar lo yar sami i agree both shud think abt their children. afterall it was their love marriage. nad the real issue is lack of communication between wife and husband. when they stop talking to each other other people who have nasty intentions (like bano apa and maya) get the opportunity to destroy everything. second topic is not 2nd marriage. of course polygamy is allowed in islam but it's also written that if you are not loyal and equal with your wives you are guilty. i don't know any man who has 2 wives and treats them equally. it's not in human nature. that's why it is recommended to have one wife sami agree 101%. sensible women like u always know abt right n wrong. nad please mehru go back to your husband. apna ghar batcha lo. can't wait to see next episode Mrs.Shah Can anyone tell me about this ringtone in the drama on meerub mobile?? I want it plz.. Haseeb I think it is our society that is the root cause of this problem. Our society and its teachings. Our society has been pressuring women to compromise in marriage for generations. Unfortunately we have never trained our sons or taught them to compromise in marriages. That is why men go into marriages thinking of themselcves as their wives' masters. As soon as society's lessons shift some focus onto men as well as women and men learn how to compromise in marriage like the Prophet[SAW] did, then the world would be a happier place and we would not have men like Meerab around. Haseeb When will ignorant people like you learn? Know that second marriage is not some kind of commandment in Islam and it has strict regulations and it is a woman's choice if she wants to live in a polygamous marriage or not. Many women, including the Prophet(SAW)'s daughters and great granddaughters stipulated no-polygamy clauses in their Nikah. Does that mean they did not submit to Islam? Does that mean their iman was weak? This drama is an awesome and has exposed a very dark reality in our society, hence so many people uncomfortable with these dark truths have moved onto here to troll around. Haseeb And Polygamy is NOT some kind of sixth pillar of Islam. Allah is not going to ask how many wives we married on the day of Judgement but he definitely does ask how we TREATED them. The Prophet[SAW] was married to only one wife Khadijah[ra] in a monogamous marriage for 25 years despite living in a polygamous society. And that was his MOST successful and loving marriage, that he still remembered years later, even not remarrying until 2 years after Khadijah[ra] died. That can be compared to only 8 years of his polygamous marriages [which was at a time when many pious men remarried to support women in need] which was busily spent in Dawah and millitary campaigns. Even his wives, despite being extremely pious women, still felt jealous of each other. Now you tell me, which kind of marriage seems to be more encouraged in Islam? As far as I know the major schools of Sunni thought such as Shaffi'i maintain it is BETTER to 'limit oneself to one wife'. sami u dont have to argue that much wid an ignorant. Badtameez AGREE 100000000 % :- ) sami ur taking name of "Islam" and abusing other women. i dont think ur a muslim. Allah knows better. Haseeb I want to make a request to the viewers. Please do not post any more comments related to polygamy, as it is neither the issue here nor are we qualified to discuss it since we don't give women their Islamic rights-which include the right o not live in a polygamous marriage-so please keep it clean here and don't discuss that issue. All those who still post in favour of being polygamy are adding fuel to the fire by picking a highly sensitive subject, where neither of the two sides are wrong as polygamy is about choice. The choice of a husband and wife that requires both to use their aqal. Sara Like it or not, the ONLy protagonists in the drama are Mehru and her children. All others, including Meerab, are antagonists. nadia a love this drama ahasan and saba rocked once again Nowsharvan When Meerab took Maya to Mehru's house – holding the former's hand…insulting and demeaning Mehru in such a derogatory fashion I felt like saying: Here here… this is how an idiot graduates to becoming a total nut case ulloo ka patha! This man is full of contradictions and complexes. Detestable man. Not because he is planning to become polygamous – simply 'cause he is not even half a man. He cannot see how Bano and her family continues to rob him…neither does he have the ability to decode Maya's games against his very own wife! Such a dumb a** chimp he is! iman Butt http://www.facebook.com/pages/SHaIrY_PoEtRy-z-vOi… Sidra what was the need of pubicizing any facebook page here??? this is the place to comment what you think not to publicize anything. understand???!!! faiza please please aisi video upload kia krain jo download bhi ho sakay. ab o tune.pk ki bhi download nahi horahi kuch days say . . :'( sirfham1 meerab ko maya ki mehrbanian hi nazar ati hen her time THANK U MAIYA Habib Athar In analysis…….. Neerab dont know whats happening………… Why not Mehreen tell meerab the real story in a polite way rather than just demanding that he had to disconnect the relation. Until unless one knows the reality and then take wrong decision …………. is mad man………. Mehreen knows the situation but dont tell him the real story ….. Aysha Habib, Mehreen has told meerab many times that Maya is intrested in him and he also insults Mehru, but he didnt listen. I think if there was any misunderstaning, It should have been clear in Meerab's head after Maya proposed him to marry. He should have beleived in what Mehru was saying Understanding Hi guys! Can someone please explain the meaning of these two words used: "QADAR" and "TALOOK"? Trying to learn the language by watching these great dramas! Your help is appreciated! hgadig qadar means to appreciate and talook means to keep an association Understanding Thank you! Aryaan Thanks Admin.. jea asel me sari galti mehru ki hai use pehley maya k ghar pr job nhi krni chahiye thi lekin us bechari ne socha k gher me 2 pesey ajaye gey us ko yeh nhi pata tha maya us ka ghr brbad kr de gi Aysha In Last episode, mehru used correct words for Meerab. He is Mayas Rakhail (a male rakhail). Mehru kept telling Meerab to leave Mayas job and Arsalan will give him the same job. She kept telling that Maya is intrested in Meerab but Meerab never belived in her. I thought once Maya will ask Meerab to marry her, meerab will realize that her wife was right…but he is still not leaving Maya, kyuon kay wo us ka paisa kha raha hay. Question is: If a woman (Maya) shows intrest in a married man (Meerab), should that man be ever in touch with that woman??? Sadia U know wat? u sound like a 10 years old girl who cant differentiate between right and wrong. Mehru used a word "rakhail" and u think its right. Do u really know its meaning? there is a thing called "respect of husband" u always try to teach other girls how to degrade or disrespect a husband or a man ur just a mentally retarded person who dont know anything about giving and having respect. do u really respect ur own husband? i dont think so. ur a woman with 0 percent tolerance and -10 percent respect for others Aysha Miss sadia, respect is something a person has to EARN from his/her behavior. It does not come automatically by signing a peice of paper. Do u think a woman should respect her husband if her husband is involved with another woman??? If your husband has an affair with another woman, would u respect him?? Do u watch drama "Daagh", do u think husband Murad in that daram deserves any respect from her wife? Do u watch drama "Main gunehgar naheen", do you think husband in that drama deserves any respect? Do u watch drama, "Eik tamana lahasil", do u think husband mohsin deserves any respect? Do u watch darma " Muhabbat jaay bhar main" where father of 7 kids is involved with shagufta and went to a hotel with her. Do you think he deserves respect??? Aysha And also, I do respect my husband , BECAUSE HE DSERVES IT AND BOTH OF US RESPECT EACH OTHER BECAUSE WE EARNED THAT RESPECT. He is not involved with any other woman and I am not involved with any other man and we are fullfiling our duties as mohter and father and husband and wife as well. And thats how you earn respect. mahum Armaan maya se shadi se pehlay meerab ko uska asal chehra nazar aa jaye to acha hai or mehro bar bar arslan ko kioun anay dety hai jb k usko pta hai k us k husband ko nahi pasand ghalty pr ghalty faslay berharhi hai or ye mujhay smjh nahi aty k mard ourat me jb larai hoty hai sb se pehla attack bachay cheennay pr kioun hota hai,bap se ziada mann ka haq hai olad pr or olad ka mann pr Any Girl Bano appa kinds of women are all around us. Some older sisters/mothers in law are much worse than this. But if your husband is nice and loving and supports his wife emotionally then it doesn't matter about those witches! Girls, be SMART when choosing your spouse! iqra what a stupid person is myrab he dosent even know any thing has he even been to school sadi yeah ulooo ka patha jab apni khabeesbahan kaliya mahrusa paisy mang mang ker daita tha tab es ki izate nefs kehan theee aisa admi maya jaisy auret deserve kerta ha mahru jaisy nheee maya hi es ki saza ha friendz zahid ayesan khan pagal becari mehroo maya pagal Asad Baykar fazool hareem adil dramas are mainly made for our entertainment so plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz dont get emotionally attached with that stuff Noori yeh comments kahan ghai admin? Numan Memon mere passs ha Hana maine apne jaib mein rakh liye. zeezee I hate maya , Is poorey dramay meinmujhey aik hi smjhdaar aurat nazar ai hai and woh hai mehreen kineighbour. Mrs.Shah anyone can tell me the ringtone name on meerub’s cellphone??? plz hira i love this drama ya kaisa drama post karta ho itna fazool ha na chalta hain Ali I think Maya is Hot!